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Responses to "Shepherding Words"
Recently, I read on a website called shepherdingwords that people are using social media to bear false witness and/or spread baseless...

Ruth Wise
Sep 12, 20241 min read
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Shunning and other culty practices
I am watching a documentary about Jehovah's Witnesses , and I am so sad and even shocked how many parallels there are between that group...

Ruth Wise
Aug 22, 20244 min read
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Coercive Control
As I was driving home to Los Angeles from Omaha in December of 2022, I received threats that if I come home, my husband would file a...

Ruth Wise
Aug 13, 20245 min read
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Two Severe Forms of Abuse: Silence & Blame-Shifting
The Cruelty of Silence Originally posted July, 2021 Imagine talking "with" a loved one, and they say nothing back. For days. You text...

Ruth Wise
Aug 12, 20245 min read
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"We're Only as Sick as our Secrets"
Originally posted in July, 2021; updated on August 12, 2024 "We're only as sick as our secrets." When I heard this statement at an...

Ruth Wise
Aug 12, 20244 min read
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Characteristics, and Experiences, of Cult-like Family Dynamics
Originally posted in August 2021; updated a bit in August 2024 So my blog may seem to be shifting among a couple of themes. A friend...

Ruth Wise
Aug 12, 20246 min read
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Abuse that Isolates a Church Member (originally posted in August 2021)
Abuse that isolates a church member Updated: Aug 13, 2021 Until I needed support the most, I believed that I had a dependable,...

Ruth Wise
Aug 10, 20245 min read
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"Narcissistic Family Traits", & "Not a Respecter of Persons", originally posted in August 2021
Narcissistic Family Traits These are notes from a helpful youtube video (link is below); these points resonate with me, and I am sorry if...

Ruth Wise
Aug 10, 20245 min read
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Wolves in Sheep's Clothing, and Let Love Be Without Hypocrisy (originally posted in September 2021)
Wolves in sheep's clothing When I read this analogy in the past, I pictured an Aesop's fable drawing of a wolf that is obviously a wolf,...

Ruth Wise
Aug 10, 20246 min read
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Once-Deleted Blogs on the Church
The following blogs were posted in October 2021, then deleted due to heightened threatening and abuse. They are being posted from more...

Ruth Wise
Aug 10, 202416 min read
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Got Closure?
This weekend I reached out to a dear friend who has experienced much of what I write about in these postings, in the context of the same...

Ruth Wise
Aug 4, 20244 min read
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Formerly deleted posts (IV)
[Topics: Serve & Return; Who Is My Neighbor?] Serve & Return - for ALL ages Updated: Oct 31, 2021 Healthy relationships are marked by...

Ruth Wise
Aug 3, 20245 min read
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Formerly deleted blog posts (III)
[Topics: Open letter to my father-in-law; Dysfunctional world maps] Why do I have the name "Wise"???? Updated: Dec 4, 2021 An open letter...

Ruth Wise
Aug 3, 202418 min read
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Formerly deleted blog posts (II)
[Topics: Moral Injury and Systemic Abuse] Moral Injury Originally posted Dec 28, 2021 Violence and suicide are more frequently due to...

Ruth Wise
Aug 3, 202411 min read
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Formerly deleted blog posts (I)
[Topics: Toxic positivity and Lessons Learned in 2021] I will be re-posting my former blogs, possibly 2 at a time, over the next days....

Ruth Wise
Aug 3, 20249 min read
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Dear "Mystic John,”
Someone reached out today and asked if he could buy a book which I wrote a few years ago and then removed from Amazon because I was...

Ruth Wise
Aug 2, 20246 min read
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Normal, healthy response to abnormal, unhealthy treatment
In early 2020, I went to see a psychiatrist within my UCLA medical network. I was having symptoms of anxiety, depression, panic… all...

Ruth Wise
Aug 1, 20246 min read
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Recommendation of Another Podcast
I was recommended a specific episode of a podcast (https://julieroys.com/podcast/), and am very thankful to have found it. I'll be...

Ruth Wise
Jul 31, 20241 min read
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Praising God with throngs in the Angels Stadium
Last night I attended a gathering of tens of thousands of believers at the Angels Stadium. All I can say is it was so glorious and...

Ruth Wise
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Grieving... in Poetry
Tonight I am grieving, intensely, unutterably, as I have grieved for several years now. As a middle school teacher, I am currently...

Ruth Wise
Feb 18, 20242 min read
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